Choosing Friends Wisely
by Dionna Sanchez
Emphasis on Moms
Our children have so many different influences on their lives each and every day. We focus on what adults they are around, and what kind of effect it will have on them. But what about the children? Our child's peers has just as much, if not more of an effect on what kind of person they are becoming. It is important to teach our children to discern who is good to hang out with, and who is not.
You can usually notice when a particularly bad choice of a friend has an impact on your child's behavior and attitude. Sit down and share your concerns with your children. Suggest characteristics that can be found in friends that can be counted on, and the types of friends to avoid. Don't assume that your child knows how to pick good friends. Sometimes, they don't understand how a bad trait can later work it's way into their own character.
Children are vital in helping each other through the ups and downs of life as they grow up. Some friends come and go, but some are lifelong buddies. Help your child in searching for pals who encourage, uplift and cheer them on; while at the same time are honest, sensitive and understanding. It is a rich treat to see your child relish in the carefree play of a good, solid friendship. Whether they are 2 or 16, how they relate to friends effects how they relate to themselves. Help them choose wisely.
Dionna Sanchez loves the daily reminders her children give her to invest her love and time into what really matters... them. Visit her website at http://www.EmphasisOnMoms.com/
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