Valentine's Day is almost here, and everyone's thoughts turn to love. Most people focus on the romantic kind of love, but there is a stronger love that exceeds normal boundaries and common sense. It is the love of a parent for their child.

As parents we expend a great amount of energy on loving our children and caring about their future. This is why , because we want our children to be happy and healthy. Teens with difficulties are often neither of those things, and it is so sad to watch a teen self-destruct with careless and injurious behavior. But we need to always show them our love, even when they are at their worst. In fact, that is when they need our unconditional love most. Remember, underneath all that anger and rebellion is the child you love. Try to separate the behavior from the child. Never stop communicating with your teen and always show them you love them.

Valentine's Day is a great time to give your teen a small gift to show your love. Candy, a balloon, a tape, a toy are all good reminders that you care. For the perfect gift on this day of the heart, give them your time! It is always just the right size, color, and what they've always wanted.

Have a loving Valentine's Day.

Credits: Jo Ann Wentzel