A large proportion of parents and children will be a part of a blended family at some time in their lives. There can be many advantages to combining families, such as there may be less loneliness for... [more]
We all make thousands of decisions every day. Many of those decisions are based on habit. (That's the way I've always done it.) Some decisions are based on pressures. (If I don't get that done today... [more]
There are many things that only happen if you don't force them to happen. Getting children to open up is one of them. The more we wheedle, cajole, or pester, the less likely they are to talk. Sharing... [more]
Sometimes our children's creativity delights us. Sometimes it makes us crazy. If we help them channel their creativity, we will have more fun with them and they will lead more productive lives. The... [more]
There are two problems when children spend too much time watching television or surfing the net. The first problem is the unfiltered, negative influences that enter their lives: hardness, cruelty,... [more]
What a great lifetime investment parents make when they help their children discover and develop their talents! Some psychologists say the principle job of parents is to help their children become... [more]
One of the most common questions I hear is, "How can I be successful in my career and still be the kind of family member I want to be?" Some people write to me about their children, their garden,... [more]
Almost all parents have dealt with temper tantrums in their children. They are nearly universal and almost always frustrating. What can a parent do? The first step in dealing with tantrums is... [more]
The teen years bring special challenges. Teens generally want more freedom than they had as children. They are more influenced by peers and movies. They are often less compliant. They are more likely... [more]
Times of transition are frightening for anyone. Consider all the possible transitions involved in leaving high school and going to college: moving to a new city, breaking connections with many old... [more]
The most wonderful time of the year can also be the craziest. It can become the most exhausting and the most frustrating. There are practical ways to increase the peace and reduce the frustration of... [more]
Anyone who has ever had a teenager has probably experienced painful disrespect. Sometimes their disrespectful actions become chronic and almost unbearable. What should a parent do when a teen is... [more]
Hardly anything inflames parents like the news that someone is picking on their children. The traditional counsel to children who are bullied is to walk away or to fight back. Neither suggestion... [more]