Hitting A Brick Wall

Sometimes the best efforts still result in an unresolved search for locating your birth family relative/s. You would be amazed though at how many times that link to resolving your search is one that you didn't investigate thoroughly enough or one that you thought inconsequential.

This is the time to double-check your search information.

a.. Review your paperwork to see if there is anything you overlooked or under investigated.
b.. Follow-up on any letters and phone calls where you did not get a response.
c.. Make sure that you are using the most current address or phone number.
d.. Reread your notes and double-check some of your answers with secondary resources.
e.. Make sure that the non-identifying information you have is the most up-to-date information that the agency will release to you. Many adoptees only have information given to their adoptive parents at the time of adoption. Agencies are giving out much more information now than they were years ago so request new non-identifying information when possible.
f.. The accuracy of information that you requested from an adoption agency can be compared to maternity home records to see if there are any differences in the file records.

  Adopt in California
Researching common names such as Smith, Jones, Williams, Brown, Green, Johnson, Miller, Anderson, Davis and Wilson are always difficult. The parameters of the search in some cases can be too enormous to develop a method to effectively narrow the possibilities. It does help in these cases to have an unusual first name and have an initial. However, many Mary Smith's have been found as have many John Williams'. It takes a lot more work but by staying organized and leaving yourself a paper trail you can be much more effective.

Discovering that some of your research material has falsified information can be disheartening. A few states changed the date of birth and the city, county or state of birth on the amended birth certificate so that it did not agree with the information on the original birth certificate.

Information given by the birth parents could be falsified and the non-identifying report would then not be a true background report. Some birthmothers used an alias name and the birth name that was reported on the original birth certificate was false. However, usually some of the information is true and in some cases there is enough truth in the information to still complete your search. Many times it is a process of determining, through the process of elimination, what information is true and what information was falsified.
 

Helping birth mothers find the right adoptive family.

Paul & Ann(NY)

are hoping to adopt

Paul & Ann hoping to adopt A Service of Adoption Profiles,LLC
Ready for Adoption?
Adoption Network Law Center Adoption Network Law Center
Want to Adopt? Click here.
Click here to be helped in California!
 Adoption Network Law Center
Pregnant? Click here.
 Adoption Network Law Center